Past Issues of the Preteen Alliance Post

Issues from 2009:

Jan. 8 | Feb. 27 | March 31 | May 29 | Aug. 19 | Oct. 20

Issues from 2008:

Jan. 14 | Feb. 14 | March 18 | April 17 | May 21 | June 20 | July 25 | Sept. 23

Issues from 2007:

Nov. 19 | Oct. 16 | Sept. 7 | Aug. 2 | July 9 | June 7 | May 3 | April 3 | March 1 | Feb. 6 | Jan. 4

Issues from 2006:

Nov. 30 | Oct. 30 | Sept. 28 | Aug. 30 | July 26 | June 27 | May 25 | April 28 | March 23

Issues from 2005:

Aug. 10 | March 29

Issues from 2004:

Nov. 17

Monday, Nov. 19, 2007

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

What Is Normal? Luncheon Speakers Address Important Questions on Preteens' Minds
Am I normal?
How do I fit in?
Why do I feel the way I do?
When do I have to start worrying about taxes?

These are some of the "Important Questions on the Minds of Preteens" addressed by Rob Lehman, MD, and Julie Metzger, RN, MN, at Preteen Alliance luncheons held in October and November. Rob and Julie, who run a popular series of workshops for preteens and parents at both Seattle Children's Hospital and Lucile Packard Children's Hospital, shared insights into how preteens think. The speakers' tips on helping preteens through these important years included:

• When talking through important issues such as puberty and relationships, have 200 one-minute conversations, not one 200-minute conversation. Long, one-time discussions may be less effective than short in-the-moment conversations when opportunities naturally arise.
• Parents should aim to reassure their preteens that the changes they are going through are normal.
• Rather than “fix” their problems for them, let preteens experience real-life consequences, within reason.

For a more complete re-cap of the events and a list of resources from Rob and Julie, visit preteenalliance.org.

Did you miss Claire Goss's recent column on preteen temperament? Read it here.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

Find Data About Preteens Across the Bay Area
Want to know how area preteens are faring? Now, even more local preteen data is readily accessible online. Kidsdata.org has expanded from San Mateo and Santa Clara counties to include data and resources for four more Bay Area counties: Alameda, Contra Costa, Marin, and San Francisco. Find a data summary about Bay Area preteens at:
http://www.kidsdata.org/demographicdata.jsp?menuused=indexdem&dem=21

Violence in Schools on the Rise -- Rates Highest in Middle Schools
According to the National Center for Education Statistics, the percentage of public schools experiencing violent incidents increased from 71 percent in the 1999–2000 school year to 81 percent in the 2003–04 school year. The study also found that both elementary schools and high schools nationwide had lower rates of violent crimes per 1,000 students than middle schools. In 2003–04, there were 28 violent crimes per 1,000 students in elementary and high schools combined, compared with 53 violent crimes in middle schools.
http://nces.ed.gov/programs/crimeindicators/index.asp

WHAT'S GOING ON

Adolescence Preparedness Training
This Hand in Hand class will help parents learn how to build strong connections with their preteens, in order to sustain a strong relationship during the teen years. Monday, Nov. 19, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/204089

Managing Parental Anger
The Foundation of Family Values offers this workshop to parents struggling to effectively and positively handle conflicts with their children. Thursday, Dec. 6, in Campbell.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203983

Serving ADHD Students
This workshop for educators, sponsored by the San Mateo County Office of Education, will offer evidence-based strategies for meeting the needs of students with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Wednesday, Dec. 12, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203913

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/admin.cgi

If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Tuesday, Oct. 16, 2007

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

Phone Calls? PDAs? Pencil and Paper? The Best Ways to Survey Preteens
If you work with preteens – whether in community, school, health care, or other settings – you probably have needed to ask them questions about their feelings, behaviors, health habits, or other issues at some point. But what's the best way to get good information from this age group?

The Preteen Alliance set out to answer that question by commissioning Education Training Research (ETR) to review eight common methods used to collect data from children ages 9 to 13, including surveys (computer-based, PDAs, paper and pencil), diaries, interviews (phone, in person, focus groups), and observational methods. The full report, including briefs on each data collection method and a synopsis of existing local surveys, is available at http://www.lpfch.org/informed/facts/etr.html.

ograms Key in Promoting Preteen Well Being
This issue brief summarizes formal evaluations of after-school programs for youth. The summary notes that such programs help keep children safe, and have a positive impact on behavior, social skills, and family life. Additionally, researchers have found that after-school programs encourage parental involvement, according to the brief.
http://www.afterschoolalliance.org/documents/Evaluations_Behavior_0107.pdf

WHAT'S GOING ON

Second Date Added -- Important Questions on the Minds of Preteens
While the Oct. 17 event is full, the Preteen Alliance and Lucile Packard Children's Hospital are co-sponsoring a second luncheon to address the issues on preteens' minds and the strategies that adults can employ to assist kids during this important transitional stage. This encore performance will take place at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, Nov. 6, at the Santa Clara Marriott Hotel. Register for the Nov. 6 conference at http://events.lpfch.org.

Preteen Soccer Tournament
The Preteen Alliance is a proud sponsor of this year's CW Cup, a soccer tournament for preteens from all over the Bay Area. The tournament, scheduled for Oct. 27 and 28 in Morgan Hill, will feature 64 teams of 10- to 14-year-olds.

Parents and Homework: What Is Your Role?
Sponsored by Parents Place and the Stressed Out Students Project at Stanford University, this lecture will address how to support your child's homework efforts and effectively communicate with teachers. Tuesday, Oct. 23, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203935

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
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If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Friday, Sept. 7, 2007

Popular Doctor/Nurse Duo to Speak at Next Preteen Luncheon
The Preteen Alliance will hold its second luncheon event, this time in partnership with Lucile Packard Children's Hospital, on Wednesday, Oct. 17. The free luncheon, which will be geared toward professionals who work with preteens, will feature Rob Lehman, MD, and Julie Metzger, RN, who are well known locally for leading the popular Heart to Heart workshops at Packard Hospital for preteens and their parents. The event will be held from noon to 1:30 p.m. at the Garden Court Hotel in downtown Palo Alto. Visit http://events.lpfch.org for more information and to RSVP. Questions? E-mail preteens@lpfch.org or call (650) 724-5778.

Did you miss the first luncheon with Kaiser Permanente on June 25? Read a re-cap here.

Coming Soon: Bay Area-Wide Data About Preteens
This fall, kidsdata.org will expand to offer extensive data on child well being for four more Bay Area counties: Alameda, Contra Costa, Marin, and San Francisco. Major upgrades also will be made to the website for all six counties, and the expanded site will include a range of data related to preteens, from asthma to demographics to weight. Please help us spread the word by telling your colleagues throughout the Bay Area about this great resource, and forward this link:
http://www.lpfch.org/kidsdata/aboutkidsdata.pdf

Attend a meeting about the kidsdata.org expansion:
Alameda County (9/18) | Marin County (9/19) | San Francisco (9/27)
(Contra Costa County date to be determined)

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

New Column: Preteen Temperament Runs the Gamut
Preteenalliance.org's newest column, by licensed education psychologist and Alliance Steering Committee member Claire Goss, encourages parents and educators to embrace preteens' temperaments and behaviors as gifts, rather than labeling a child’s style as "good" or "bad." Goss also outlines how a child's temperament affects the learning process. "Understanding a child’s temperament can help him or her succeed academically, as well as socially/emotionally," she writes. Read Claire Goss' column now>>

Did you miss Susan Camarillo's recent column on helping preteens transition to middle school? Read it here>>

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

Study: Average Drinking Age Dropping
According to a recent national study conducted by researchers at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center, 7 percent of fourth graders said they have had an alcoholic drink in the past year. The study makes a case for alcohol prevention programs during the preteen years, noting a connection between early alcohol use and negative outcomes later in life.
http://www.springerlink.com/content/m1427200268q6r02/
Kidsdata.org fact: In 2006, 32 percent of fifth graders in San Mateo County and 26 percent in Santa Clara County said they have tried alcohol. See the data>>

Preteen Emotional Health as Important as Physical Health, Doctor Writes
This article in the Palo Alto Medical Foundation’s newsletter focuses on preteen emotional health and what parents can do to help their child navigate these important years. The author, Elizabeth Lee, MD, notes that a child’s emotional health during this time is just as important as the physical changes they experience.
http://www.pamf.org/children/newsletter/emotional.html
Also see: “We’re Talking Too,” the Palo Alto Medical Foundation's website just for preteens, sponsored in part by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health.
http://www.pamf.org/preteen

RESOURCES ABOUT PRETEENS

Books About Growing Up for Preteens and Parents
Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital offers this list of books that may be of interest to preteens and their families. The books cover the topics of puberty and sexuality for boys, girls, and parents.
http://www.lpch.org/pdf/heartToHeartBookList.pdf

WHAT'S GOING ON

Staying Close with Your Preteen
Parents searching for ways to connect with their adolescent child may be interested in this class offered by Hand in Hand and the Santa Clara Library. Participants will learn how to create opportunities for "one-on-one" time and tips for keeping a lifelong connection. Monday, Sept. 24, in Santa Clara.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203927

Understanding ADHD
This San Mateo County Office of Education workshop will help parents and school personnel understand the behaviors associated with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and the long-term implications of the disorder. Wednesday, Sept. 26, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203733

Help Working Through a Sibling's Disability
This support group sponsored by Parents Helping Parents and the El Camino YMCA offers a place where teen and preteen siblings of children with special needs can share their experiences and learn more about their brother's or sister's disability. Sunday, Sept. 30, in Mountain View.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203728

Is Media the Other Parent?
Lucile Packard Children's Hospital offers this seminar to discuss the effect that media messages have on children. The event will include suggestions for how children can become smart consumers of media. Tuesday, Oct. 2, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203845

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
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If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Thursday, Aug. 2, 2007


WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

Helping Preteens Make the Transition to Middle School
As school starts this fall, many preteens will make the delicate transition from elementary school, where they rule the roost, to the new and unfamiliar environment of middle school. This month's columnist, Susan Camarillo, MSW, a counselor at Crocker Middle School in Hillsborough, explains how parents and caregivers can help preteens navigate this transition. "The key for parents is finding the balance between supporting your children while still allowing them the independence needed to grow and build their own skills," she writes. Read Susan Camarillo's blog>>

Did you miss the first Preteen Alliance luncheon event on June 25? Read a re-cap here. Plans for future luncheons are in the works. Stay tuned to www.preteenalliance.org for upcoming information.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered on preteenalliance.org? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

A Model Middle School
Many preteens experience an academic slump during middle school, making these grades among the most difficult for educators to teach effectively. This profile of a successful middle school program in New York highlights innovative programs that have helped to reverse that academic slump. The programs include comprehensive education for teachers about adolescent social and emotional development and a school-wide emphasis on a common vocabulary for acceptable behaviors.
http://www.middleweb.com/mw/news/NYTmsmanages.doc
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/05/12/education/12middle.html?ref=education

Early Behavior Affects Teen Mental Health
According to an article in the journal Child Development, behavioral problems in grade school can initiate peer rejection and loneliness that, in turn, lead to early adolescent depression. According to the authors, these results suggest that interventions to prevent adolescent depression and loneliness should start in elementary school.
http://psychcentral.com/news/2007/07/24/early-behavior-critical-for-teen-mental-health/

Web Resource: Child and Adolescent Social and Emotional Development
The Maternal and Child Health Library at Georgetown University has created an electronic guide to resources on healthy social and emotional development among school-age children (and other age groups). The site includes web links, data, literature, and a database of programs. A section containing resources for families also is included.
http://www.mchlibrary.info/KnowledgePaths/kp_Mental_Healthy.html

WHAT'S GOING ON

Celebrating National Night Out
The Children's Discovery Museum and several other sponsors will celebrate National Night Out, an event to promote community togetherness and police partnerships. The event will feature a visit from local police officers, access to museum exhibits, and a resource fair. Tuesday, Aug. 7, in San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203835

Stop the Power Struggles
Participants in this Kaiser Permanente workshop will learn to defuse power struggles while disciplining children in a way that builds collaboration and harmony within the family. Tuesday, Aug. 28, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203264

Weight Management for Preteens and Teens
This Camino Medical Group program aims to help families develop an active lifestyle with a healthful eating plan. Each session includes breakout meetings for parents and children, ages 8-15. Begins Tuesday, Sept. 18, in Mountain View.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203803

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
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If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Monday, July 9, 2007

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

HPV, Sexual Health Key Issues for Preteen Girls, Say Alliance Luncheon Speakers
If you couldn't attend the June 25 Preteen Alliance luncheon about girls' health, here are some highlights from the speakers:

• It's crucial for parents to talk with preteen girls about sexual issues, so that they develop healthful habits later in life; and
• The HPV vaccine, which recently was recommended for preteen girls starting at age 9 to help prevent cervical cancer, is an important -- and safe -- vaccination, even at that young age.

The Preteen Alliance extends our appreciation to the event's speakers, Kaiser pediatrician Dr. Seham El-Diwany and psychologist and sex therapist Bryna Barsky-Ex, PhD, as well as everyone who came and asked such important questions. And we also want to thank Kaiser Permanente San Jose, our co-sponsor. In addition to the speakers, they provided lunch and the meeting space for this event. For a more complete summary of the event, and links to the speakers’ materials, visit www.preteenalliance.org.

Did you miss Sarah Kremer's recent column on mentoring? Read it here.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered on preteenalliance.org? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

Studies Show Preteens Need Family Involvement for Academic Success
The Harvard Family Research Project has released a series of research briefs on the importance of family involvement. The second and third installments of the series deal specifically with preteens. In "Family Involvement in Children's Elementary School Education," researchers note that family involvement is critical for elementary school-age children's learning and development. And in "Family Involvement in Middle and High School Students' Education," researchers acknowledge that families are less involved in preteens' academic lives as they get older. However, experts say that staying a part of a child's life well into the high school years is essential for positive social and academic outcomes.
http://www.gse.harvard.edu/hfrp/projects/fine/resources/research/pubs.html#general

WHAT'S GOING ON

Social Skills Support Group for Preteens
Family Service Agency's Children's Socialization Group caters to preteens who have trouble making or keeping friends, participating in group activities, resolving disagreements, and/or getting along with teachers and parents. The group aims to help children improve self-esteem, as well as social and conflict-resolution skills. Saturday, July 14, in San Mateo.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202953

Raising Children in a Culture of Affluence and Pressure
In this Parents Place workshop, participants will discuss the stress that affects affluent children, and the risk of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and other self-destructive behavior among privileged youth. Thursday, July 19, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203751

Free Health Screenings
Neighbors in Health and other sponsors will offer free health services for uninsured and underinsured children up to age 18, including back-to-school check-ups and immunizations, sports physicals, vision and dental screenings, and nutrition advice. Saturday, July 28, in Daly City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203758

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
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Thursday, June 7, 2007

Space Going Quickly for 'Preteen Girls' Health: A Conversation with a Physician and a Psychologist'
Although we only announced the event last week, seats are filling up fast for the June 25 luncheon discussion sponsored by The Preteen Alliance and Kaiser Permanente. This free event, which takes place in San Jose, will feature two Kaiser experts:

• Dr. Seham Eldiwany is a pediatrician who will discuss the new HPV vaccine recommended for preteens, as well as other key physical health issues facing preteen girls.
• Dr. Bryna Barsky-Ex, a psychologist and sex therapist who specializes in working with adolescents and preteens, will discuss self-esteem, body image, sexual health, and how to communicate with preteen girls about these issues.

The event, which will be valuable for parents and professionals alike, also will offer the opportunity for questions and discussion. Lunch will be provided.

Space is limited. If you haven't done so already, register now at http://events.lpfch.org

For more information, contact us at preteens@lpfch.org or (650) 724-5778.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

This Summer -- and All Year Long -- Preteens Need Mentors
During the summer months when school is out, preteens may need some extra guidance in their lives, and a mentor can have a big impact, according to mentoring expert Sarah Kremer. In a new column just posted on preteenalliance.org, Kremer outlines why it's important for preteens to have adult mentors; the great need for more adults willing to volunteer their time as mentors; and how mentoring can be an effective intervention tool for at-risk youth. "For those who are in their preteen years and are open to the experience, a positive adult role model can make a world of difference," Kremer writes. Kremer is an Alliance member and program manager for the Mentoring Institute at Friends for Youth in Redwood City. Read Sarah Kremer's mentoring blog now >>

Did you miss Dra. Marisol’s recent column on parenting preteens? Read it here.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered on preteenalliance.org? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

Need Local Data on Preteens?
Kidsdata.org now offers the ability to view data in a new way -- by demogrpahic group. The site can serve up data profiles for nearly 20 groups -- such as Latino kids or low-income children. The preteen profile presents roughly 25 separate measures of how these kids are faring, offering data on topics ranging from reading proficiency levels to physical fitness results.
http://www.kidsdata.org/demographicdata.jsp?menuused=indexdem&dem=21

Local Teens: More Intervention Needed During the Preteen Years
Local teenagers surveyed for the 2006 San Mateo County Youth Commission Needs Assessment said they would have used less drugs and alcohol if they had been offered more guidance and intervention during the preteen years. According to the report, 71 percent of teens surveyed said their close friends drink alcohol, and most teens said they didn't remember receiving any education about alcohol or drug abuse. The teens surveyed recommended alcohol/drug abuse education beginning in the fourth grade. The Needs Assessment findings were included in the 2007 San Mateo County Adolescent Report.
http://www.co.sanmateo.ca.us/smc/department/home/0,,1954_5352214_878453731,00.html

WHAT'S GOING ON

Heart to Heart Seminar for Preteen Boys
Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's two-part Heart to Heart Seminar for boys and their fathers, or other male caregiver, covers the myths and facts of puberty, growing up, and sexuality. Wednesday, June 20, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202103

Preteen Girls' Health: A Conversation with a Physician and a Psychologist
As noted above, this free luncheon event will address the key physical, sexual, and emotional health issues facing preteen girls. Monday, June 25, in San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203707

Stopping the Power Struggles
This class for parents of preteens, sponsored by Kaiser Permanente Redwood City, will focus on how to defuse power struggles when disciplining children and build more collaboration and family harmony. Tuesday, Aug. 28, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203264

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
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If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Thursday, May 3, 2007

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

Parenting Preteens: Building a ‘United Front’
In the second of two installments in this series on parenting preteens, child psychologist Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne offers practical advice for how parents and professionals can better understand preteens' changes in appearance, attitude, mood, and behavior. (You may remember Dra. Marisol from the panel of experts at last year's Preteen Summit) "Once we realize that preteens and parents are strongly impacted by preadolescence, and are on the same side, we can ... tackle the challenges as a united front," writes Dra. Marisol, who is host of the parenting radio show Nuestros Niños. Read Dra. Marisol's blog>>

Did you miss the first part of this series from Childhood Matters host Nurse Rona Renner? Read it here. (More about Nuestros Niños and its sister program, Childhood Matters.)

Coming Up: Sarah Kremer, program manager of the Friends for Youth Mentoring Institute, describes why it’s so important for preteens to have a mentor.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered by one of preteenalliance.org's expert bloggers? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

Family Involvement in Elementary School
As children enter elementary school, they begin to spend more time away from the family and experience many developmental changes. This research brief reviews why family involvement during elementary school is important for children's learning and socio-emotional development and highlights how this research can be used to promote effective policies and practices.
http://www.gse.harvard.edu/hfrp/projects/fine/resources/research/elementary.html

Study: Most Kids Are Affected by Bullying
Researchers at Lucile Packard Children's Hospital have found that nine out of 10 elementary school students report they have been bullied. Experts say the findings are important because they rely on questionnaires filled out by the kids themselves, rather than by teachers or parents, who often do not know about more subtle cases. Lynne Huffman, MD, associate professor of pediatrics at Stanford University and a member of the Preteen Alliance Steering Committee, was an author of the study.
http://news-service.stanford.edu/news/2007/april18/med-bullies-041807.html

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WHAT'S GOING ON

Bully-Proof Your Community
In this Parents Place workshop, parents of children up to 8th grade will learn to identify what bullying is, how and when to intervene, and how to help their child create a peaceful community. Wednesday, May 9, in San Mateo.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203574

Stanford Conference Focuses on Student Stress
The annual Stressed Out Students conference, sponsored by the Stanford University School of Education, will feature a panel of students talking about their academic careers, and two keynote speakers who will discuss stress and emotional health. The conference, which is focused on kids in middle school and high school, was co-founded by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children’s Health. Friday, May 11, at Stanford.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/201600

Help for Siblings of Children with Special Needs
Parents Helping Parents' Sibshops offer a setting where preteen siblings of children with special needs can connect and learn from each other. The brothers and sisters will have an opportunity to talk about their joys and concerns and hear about the services that people with disabilities can receive. Saturday, May 12, in Santa Clara.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203408

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
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If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

WEB RESOURCES

Helping Families and Children Cope with Traumatic Events
In the wake of the Virginia Tech tragedy, the National Association of Child Care Resource and Referral Agencies has assembled resource listings to help children and families deal with traumatic events, as well as tips for recognizing the early warning signs of youth violence. This website includes information for parents, caregivers, school staff, and others.
http://www.naccrra.org/parent/traumatic_events/

Find more resources about preteens

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

Two-Part Series: Parenting Preteens
Starting today, we begin a two-part series highlighting the perspectives of two local parenting experts, Rona Renner, RN, host of the Childhood Matters radio show, and Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne, PhD, host of Nuestros Niños. Renner recounts the story of her own daughter's transition into adolescence, and notes some warning signs of depression or anxiety for which parents should be on the lookout. "It’s hard to know when emotional intensity and mood swings are part of the normal changes of puberty or signs of more serious issues," she writes. Read Nurse Rona's blog>>

Coming Up: In the second part of this series, Dra. Marisol, a psychologist, will offer practical tips for parents baffled by preteens' sometimes sudden changes in attitudes, mood, behavior, and appearance.

More about Childhood Matters and Nuestros Niños

Did you miss preteenalliance.org's discussion of the HPV vaccine? Read it here.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered by one of preteenalliance.org's expert bloggers? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

An Academic Perspective on Youth Development
Recent issues of the new Journal of Youth Development feature several articles related to preteens, on topics including adolescents' negative impressions of youth activities, the successful elements of after-school programs, and social growth among disadvantaged middle-grade students.
http://www.nae4ha.org/directory/jyd/index.html

Survey: Less Than One-Third of Children Have What They Need to Succeed
Only 31 percent of America's children (ages 6-17) have at least four of the five basic supports they need for healthy development, according to a Gallup survey developed by Child Trends and the Search Institute for America's Promise. The survey focused on the following five resources and supports that every child needs for healthy development:

• Ongoing, secure relationships with parents, as well as consistent positive relationships with other caring adults.
• Safety at home, school, and in the community,as well as a balance of structured and unstructured time.
• Good nutrition and exercise habits, regular health care, as well as knowledge, skills, and role models regarding health.
• Quality learning environments, challenging expectations, and consistent guidance and mentoring.
• Models of caring behavior, a sense of responsibility to contribute to society, and opportunities for volunteering, leadership, and service.

Children with more of these supports consistently had better outcomes, according to the survey.
http://www.americaspromise.org/ECEP.aspx?id=208

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WHAT'S GOING ON

Support Group for Children of Cancer Patients
Kids Konnected, sponsored by Parents Helping Parents, is a support group for preteens and teens who have a parent with cancer. The group meets on the second and fourth Monday of every month. April 9 and 23, in Santa Clara.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202772

Triathlon -- For Young Children and Preteens
The Peninsula Family YMCA is offering a triathlon designed specifically for children in grades K-8. Saturday, April 14, in San Mateo.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202493

Taming Gaming in Your Home
This Commonwealth Club seminar is for parents of preteens and teenagers who are concerned about the amount of time their children spend playing video games. An expert panel will address how parents can be more effective in guiding their children’s video game playing habits and preferences. Thursday, April 19, in Mountain View.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203537

Find more preteen events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
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If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Thursday, March 1, 2007

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

HPV – A Vaccine for Preteen Girls to Prevent Cervical Cancer
Now on preteenalliance.org, Ruth Shaber, M.D., director of Women's Health Services at Kaiser Permanente Northern California, answers why the HPV Vaccine is recommended for preteen girls before they become sexually active. "Hopefully, this exciting new vaccine will lower the risks of young women getting cervical cancer, precancer, or warts," Shaber writes. At least 20 states currently are pushing to make the vaccine mandatory for preteen girls, leading to nationwide debate; see news coverage of this issue on preteenalliance.org.
Blogging next: Nurse Rona Renner, host of the radio show Childhood Matters, will help parents understand when to worry about their preteen.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered by one of preteenalliance.org's expert bloggers? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

School Involvement May Lower Kids' Health Risks
Young teenagers who are active in their school may be less likely to smoke, drink, use drugs, or have sex, a new study suggests. Australian researchers found that 8th grade students at schools that started programs of "social inclusion" were 25 percent less likely than their peers at other schools to engage in risky behaviors. The programs were designed to help preteens feel more connected to their schools by encouraging them to get involved in and out of the classroom.
http://www.ajph.org/cgi/content/abstract/96/9/1582

Low Self-Esteem Linked to Future Drug Use
Preteen boys who have low self-esteem and friends who approve of drug use are more likely to become dependent on illicit drugs by age 20 than those with higher self-esteem, according to researchers from Florida State University. Researchers studied data on 872 boys collected over a span of nine years. The study, published in the Journal of Child and Adolescent Substance Abuse, points to the importance of prevention and early intervention efforts for preteens.
http://alcoholism.about.com/od/tipsforparents/a/blfsu060408.htm

Find more research about preteens

WHAT'S GOING ON

Student Panel on Learning Disorders
In this Parents Helping Parents annual event, high school and college students with learning disorders or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder will share their experiences and academic survival techniques. Tuesday, March 6, in Santa Clara.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203287

Dad and Me Staying Healthy
The San Mateo Medical Center hosts this event where kids will learn about important issues such as healthy eating habits, exercising the body and mind, dental hygiene, and visiting the doctor. The event is sponsored in part by the Fatherhood Collaborative of San Mateo County. Saturday, March 10, in San Mateo.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203397

Is My Body Good Enough?
A teen health educator will conduct this San Jose Public Library workshop to help preteens and teens ages 11 and up learn to like living in their body. Friday, March 16, in San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203471

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/admin.cgi

If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Tuesday, Feb. 6, 2007

Please Note
Starting with this issue, the Preteen Alliance newsletter will incorporate information that previously appeared in the three-times-a-year Preteen Digest. The Digest content now will fall under the “What We’re Learning About Preteens” section below, and the Preteen Digest no longer will be published (subscribers to the Preteen Digest now will receive this monthly e-mail). This newsletter is an easy way to keep up to date about events, activities, research, and other information regarding the well being of preteens. Please send any comments or questions to preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT PRETEENS

Helping Preteens Become Independent
In a just-posted blog, local elementary school principal Carol Piraino discusses what parents and educators can do to help preteens develop more independence, confidence, and responsibility. "While I recognize the world is a different place today than when I was growing up, I do believe our preteens can handle many more challenges and responsibilities than some are given," Piraino writes.
Coming up next: Kaiser Permanente Dr. Ruth Shaber will discuss the new HPV vaccine that's recommended for preteen girls.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered by one of preteenalliance.org's expert bloggers? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT WE'RE LEARNING ABOUT PRETEENS

Emotional Health a Top Concern, Parents of Preteens Say
Slightly less than 50 percent of parents in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties rate their preteen's emotional health as "excellent," according to a wide-ranging poll of Bay Area parents commissioned by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health. Parents of children of all ages listed emotional health issues, such as stress, depression, and the fallout from family conflict, among their chief concerns. Parent Poll data on preteens are available for the following topics:

• Emotional Health
• Stress
• Depression
• Child's Feelings About School
• Effects of Media

If you would like to inquire about other preteen-specific data from this poll, please e-mail preteens@lpfch.org.

Parent Opinions Still Matter to Preteens, Research Shows
Although friends’ opinions take on greater importance during the preteen years, research shows that parental influence on behaviors and choices, both positive and negative, continues to be significant. This brief from Child Trends and the National Adolescent Health Information Center provides data on the influences of parents on their preteens, addressing issues such as parental monitoring and health behaviors.
http://nahic.ucsf.edu/downloads/FamEnvironBrief.pdf

Study: Early Alcohol Use Leads to Dependency Later On
Children who start drinking alcohol before age 14 are five times more likely to become alcohol dependent later in life than those who wait to drink until after age 20, according to a national survey. The survey, reported and analyzed by the University of Maryland's Center for Substance Abuse Research, found that 47 percent of children under 14 who drank developed a dependency problem, compared to 9 percent who began drinking after age 20.
http://www.cesar.umd.edu/cesar/cesarfax/vol15/15-30.pdf
February 11-17 is National Children of Alcoholics Week
http://ncadi.samhsa.gov/seasonal/coaweek/default.aspx?
Also see: http://www.lpfch.org/informed/facts/coaweek.html

Find more research about preteens


WHAT'S GOING ON

Talking to Kids About Sex
This Parents Place workshop will address communication skills and resources for talking to preteens about sex. Tuesday, Feb. 13, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203192

Problem-Solving for Preteens
In this Kaiser Permanente class, parents of preteens will learn how to turn the day-to-day challenges preteens face into improved communication and connection, and parents will gain the tools to help preteens get beyond the all-too-common "I don't know!" response. Wednesday, Feb. 28, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203265

Heart to Heart Seminar: Just for Preteen Boys
Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's two-part Heart to Heart Seminar for boys and their fathers, or other male caregiver, covers the myths and facts of puberty, growing up, and sexuality. March 8 and 15, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202103

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/admin.cgi

If you have information about preteen events or activities for the next newsletter, please send it to preteens@lpfch.org.

Thursday, Jan. 4, 2007

THE PRETEEN ALLIANCE: 2006 IN REVIEW

Much happened with the Preteen Alliance in 2006, and we thank you for your continued interest in improving the health and well being of local preteens. Following are some highlights from 2006:

Events
Roughly 300 people came to The Preteen Summit in January 2006, which featured a keynote address by Dr. Peter Jensen, professor of psychiatry at Columbia University, on preteen development, as well as two panels -- one of local experts and another with preteens themselves. More events are in the planning stages, and will be announced in future Preteen Alliance newsletters.

Research & Data
The Alliance released a number of research reports focusing on area preteens, including "A Portrait of Preteens in Santa Clara and San Mateo Counties," a first-ever local analysis of what we know about this age group. Nearly 20 indicators about preteen well being also were added to kidsdata.org in 2006.

Membership
In 2006, the Alliance’s membership grew from 542 members to nearly 800, a roughly 50 percent increase.

Website
The new preteenalliance.org was launched in January 2006 to facilitate conversation about preteen issues. The site features discussion forums where parents and professionals can post questions and comment about issues facing preteens, and offers a member directory of Alliance members who have identified themselves as experts on specific issues. Additionally, the site includes news and data about preteens, as well as listings of events and resources.

NEW COLUMNS IN 2007

In 2007, we'll continue the series of expert blogs that began on preteenalliance.org in 2006. Just posted online: a blog from parent educator Cynthia Klein on how to keep the lines of communication open with preteens. Coming up: Local school principal Carol Piraino offers advice on how to help preteens develop independence, and an expert from the State Department of Health Services will outline vaccinations recommended for preteens, in observance of Preteen Vaccine Week, Jan. 21-27.

Is there a topic you'd like to see covered by one of preteenalliance.org's expert bloggers? E-mail us at preteens@lpfch.org.

NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS FOR THE PRETEEN ALLIANCE

What do you hope the Preteen Alliance will accomplish in 2007? What are some important actions or activities the Alliance could pursue on behalf of preteens this year, keeping in mind the group's focus on raising public awareness and sharing information? Post your thoughts here.

WHAT'S GOING ON

January is National Mentoring Month
National Mentoring Month focuses on recruiting volunteers to mentor underprivileged youth, and local events include the Mentoring Coalition of San Mateo County's annual recruitment and recognition celebration, on Sunday, Jan. 21, in Foster City, as well as the 8th Annual Mentoring Conference on Jan. 25 and 26 in Redwood City. More about National Mentoring Month.

Self Defense for Preteens and Teens
Participants in this Los Altos Recreation Department class will learn self-defense techniques using blocks, punches, kicks, and strikes. Tuesday, Jan. 9, in Los Altos.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203223

Helping Children Who Face Social Difficulties in Group Settings
The Children's Socialization Group, sponsored by Family Service Agency, helps children who have difficulty in group settings improve social skills, resolve conflicts with peers and adults, and increase self-esteem. Wednesday, Jan. 17, in San Mateo.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202953

Healthy Eating, Active Living
This Kaiser Permanente class for preteens and their parents covers basic nutrition and strategies for increasing energy and fitness. Monday, Jan. 22, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203266

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

JOIN A DISCUSSION

Topics Being Discussed on preteenalliance.org:

• Preteen Self-Esteem Boost Via Sports ("Preteen athletics is a winning proposition, with more confidence, higher achievement test scores, less depression...")
• How to Manage and Conquer Depression ("When a person feels grieved it brings them intense experiences of sorrow, which prompts deep sadness...")

Thursday, Nov. 30, 2006

First Alliance Column Discusses Student Stress
How much does what parents say affect a child’s stress level? Denise Clark Pope and Jerusha Osberg from the Stanford School of Education examine that issue in the Preteen Alliance's first-ever online column. If you haven't already done so, be sure to visit the website to read their blog and post your comments. Pope is author of "Doing School: How We Are Creating a Generation of Stressed-Out, Materialistic, and Miseducated Students," an expert in the field of student stress, and a lecturer at the School of Education. Along with the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children’s Health, she co-founded the annual Stressed Out Students conference, which helps schools reduce the amount of stress their students face. Osberg is a graduate student at the School of Education.

Coming Up
In upcoming columns: a local middle school principal will discuss how to help preteens become independent, and a parenting expert will offer tips on communicating with the preteens in your life.

WHAT'S GOING ON

Radio Show: When to Worry About Your Preteen
This Childhood Matters call-in radio show will address developmental norms for preteens, and answer parents' questions about whether their preteens' mood swings, troubles in school, or conflicts with friends are typical. The show is one of a series of preteen-specific shows sponsored in part by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health. Sunday, Dec. 17, on 98.1 KISS FM.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203205

Technology and Kids - Keeping Them Safe
Every day, preteens are exposed to countless technological devices including video games, instant messaging, social networking websites, and cell phones. This Parents Place workshop will address some of the risks associated with these technologies, and tips for how parents can connect with their tech-savvy preteens. Wednesday, Feb. 7, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203191

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

WEB RESOURCES

For Teachers: Free Children's Health Curriculum
Kids' Health in the Classroom, a project of the Nemours Foundation, offers free children's health curriculum for teachers from pre-kindergarten to 12th grades. The tutorials feature age-appropriate information on personal health, the human body, and health problems for each grade. Visit preteenalliance.org's discussion forum for teachers to get more information about Kids' Health in the Classroom or share resources that you've found useful with other teachers.

JOIN A DISCUSSION

Topics Being Discussed on preteenalliance.org:

• Newly recommended immunizations for preteens ("Parents sometimes think that shots are only for babies...")
• No Child Left Behind: Bay Area Hearing ("Is this federal education law helping or not helping students, families, and communities in the Bay Area?")

Monday, Oct. 30, 2006

Coming in November: Alliance Columnists
We’re revamping our website and gearing up for the November launch of new guest columns on preteen issues. We thank everyone for their suggestions for columnists. (If there's a topic that you'd like to see covered in a column, feel free to send your ideas to preteens@lpfch.org.) We'll send you a note when the first column is posted on the site.

HOW ARE LOCAL PRETEENS FARING?

More Emotional Support Needed for Preteens?
According to the 2004 California Healthy Kids Survey, 23 percent of 7th graders in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties reported that they have "felt so sad or hopeless every day for at least two weeks" that they stopped doing regular activities. Data also show that these students may not have the recommended emotional support at school. In San Mateo County, there is only one school counselor for every 781 students, and in Santa Clara County, there is only one school counselor for every 1,375 students, according to 2005 public school data. The American School Counselors Association recommends a ratio of one counselor for every 250 students in grades K-12.

Report: School-Based Counseling for Preteens in San Mateo County
More data about preteens: http://www.preteenalliance.org/data.html
Find more local data: http://www.kidsdata.org

WHAT'S GOING ON

Spend An Evening with Children's Authors
Award-winning authors and illustrators Barbara Bottner, Michael Emberley and Zilpha Keatley Snyder will speak and sign books at this fundraising event for Family Connections. The authors write books geared toward children up to age 13, but the evening is for adults only. Wednesday, Nov. 8, in San Carlos. http://www.kidscal.org/event/203045

Workshops for Parents and Their Preteen Daughters
Two local organizations are offering workshops focusing on parents' relationships with their preteen daughters. The Children's Health Council's "Mothers and Daughters: The Roller Coaster Years" class will help moms understand the reasons behind conflicts with their daughters. Packard Hospital's "Fathers and Daughters: The Joys and Challenges of Adolescence" offers dads a chance to strengthen their relationship with their daughters.
Mothers and Daughters: Thursday, Nov. 9, in Palo Alto
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202993
Fathers and Daughters: Wednesday, Nov. 15, in Palo Alto
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202714

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

LOCAL RESOURCES

Helping Preteens Work Off Halloween Treats
Roughly 25 percent of children in 5th, 7th, and 9th grades were overweight in 2004, and many children do not meet all of California's fitness standards. Do you know of a local organization providing physical fitness or nutrition services to preteens and/or their parents? If so, please add them to the Preteen Alliance's listing of resources on weight and physical fitness.

And remember, we are continuing to compile resource listings for the following topics:
High School Readiness
Substance Abuse
Help for Latina Preteens
Internet Safety

JOIN A DISCUSSION

Topics Being Discussed on preteenalliance.org:

• Students Taking Caffeine Drugs ("More and more students are taking drugs such as Ritalin or Adderall to help them study...")
• Internet Use and myspace -- What Can Parents Do? ("What's the best way to monitor your child's media use?")

Thursday, Sept. 28, 2006

Thank You
We appreciate all the suggestions of experts for the website's upcoming weekly columns. We're reviewing those ideas now. If you have other suggestions of individuals who could share their expertise on preteen emotional, physical, or behavioral health, feel free to send your ideas to preteens@lpfch.org. Be on the lookout at preteenalliance.org for the launch of this new feature!

HOW ARE LOCAL PRETEENS FARING?

New Data on Preteen Arrests
Did you know that preteens make up a small -- and decreasing -- percentage of total juvenile felony arrests? According to new data now available on kidsdata.org, preteens in both San Mateo and Santa Clara counties made up roughly 8 percent of juvenile felony arrests in 2004, the most recent year for which data are available. Not only is the percentage decreasing; the overall number of preteen arrests is on the decline as well.

More data about preteens: http://www.preteenalliance.org/data.html
Find more local data: http://www.kidsdata.org

WHAT'S GOING ON?

In Search of the Right High School
Finding the high school that best suits an adolescent is an important decision for older preteens. This class for parents and teens, sponsored by Redwood City's Parks, Recreation, and Community Services department, will present an overview of public and private high schools on the Peninsula. Saturday, Sept. 30, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203035

Girls For a Change Annual 'Girl Summit'
Middle school and high school girls will hear from female entrepreneurs, activists, and artists, and will have an opportunity to work on addressing social issues in their own community. Thursday, Oct. 12, in San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/203062

'I'm So Mad, and It's Your Fault!'
This Children's Health Council class helps parents employ strategies for working out conflicts with their preteens. Thursday, Oct. 19, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202991

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

JOIN A DISCUSSION

Topics Being Discussed on preteenalliance.org:

Teen Depression ("There are many options and resources available to parents, guardians, and significant others involved in the teenagers life...")
Communicating with Preteens ("Be consistent and genuinely listen to your preteen...")

LOCAL RESOURCES

Help Preteens Get Ready for High School
The percentage of students who drop out from local high schools may be cause for concern -- 6 percent in San Mateo County and nearly 15 percent in Santa Clara County, according to California’s Department of Education. Do you know of any local resources that can help preteens struggling with academic, social, or emotional issues get ready for the pressures of high school? Help start the Preteen Alliance’s listing of resources for high school readiness.

And remember, we are continuing to compile resource listings for the following topics:
Substance Abuse
Help for Latina Preteens
Internet Safety

Wednesday, Aug. 30, 2006

COMING SOON -- ASK THE EXPERTS

Wanted: Columns from Experts on Preteen Issues
In the coming months, preteenalliance.org may join the world of blogging by offering regular columns from a team of experts. We're now on the lookout for individuals who could share their expertise on various preteen topics -- from physical or emotional health to behavioral or school-related issues. Do you have any suggestions of experts (local or national) or topics of interest you'd like us to consider for these potential blogs? Please send them to preteens@lpfch.org.

WHAT'S GOING ON

Exploring the Intentions Behind Parenting
These YWCA classes offer tips to help parents reconnect with their preteens and explore different types of communication and discipline techniques. Thursday, Aug. 31, in San Jose.
For parents of children ages 5-10: http://www.kidscal.org/event/202808
For parents of children ages 11 and older: http://www.kidscal.org/event/202809

Packard Hospital's Programs for Preteens
Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's popular Heart to Heart program, which covers the topics of puberty and growing up, will be offered for girls and boys throughout the fall. Classes for fathers and sons begin Sept. 13, and the next available classes for mothers and daughters start Nov. 9. The course is held at Packard Hospital in Palo Alto.
Girls: http://www.kidscal.org/event/202102
Boys: http://www.kidscal.org/event/202103

Support Group for Children Struggling Socially
Does your preteen have trouble socializing and meeting new friends? This Family Service Agency support group aims to help preteens improve social skills, learn to resolve conflicts with peers and adults, and increase self-esteem. Wednesday, Sept. 20, in San Mateo.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202953

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

JOIN A DISCUSSION

New Discussions on preteenalliance.org:

• Looking for Health Insurance (I'm looking for ideas on health insurance for my family...)
• Preteens Say Body Image is Biggest Problem (The media exert incredible pressure on them to look like their favorite celebs...)

LOCAL RESOURCES

Community Services for Substance Abuse
Experts say that parents should begin talking to their children as early as age 11 about the dangers of drinking. Do you know of any local programs to prevent or treat substance use among preteens or to help families dealing with substance abuse? Help start the Preteen Alliance’s listing of resources for substance abuse.

And remember, we are continuing to compile resource listings for the following topics:

Help for Latina Preteens
Internet Safety

Wednesday, July 26, 2006

LOCAL RESOURCES

Help for Preteen Latinas
A recent editorial in the New York Times highlights struggles for some Latina girls nationwide, including high rates of suicide attempts, teen pregnancy, drug abuse, and high school dropouts. Locally, data from San Mateo and Santa Clara counties show that Latina 7th graders are more likely than other 7th graders to report feeling sad or hopeless, and that self-inflicted injuries are more prevalent among Latina and Caucasian girls than other groups. (See full report - pdf) Do you know of any local support services available for Latinas? Help start the Preteen Alliance’s listing of resources geared toward Latina girls by listing services here.

And remember, we are continuing to compile resource listings for the following topics:

Summer Learning
Internet Safety
Summer Activities

HAVE AN OPINION?

Question of the Month: Are Gifted Students Bullied More?
More than two-thirds of academically gifted 8th-graders report being bullied at school, according to researchers at Purdue University. The study’s authors also say that gifted children may be more susceptible to emotional damage from bullying. What can schools and parents do to curtail this problem? Post your thoughts.

New Discussions on preteenalliance.org:

• Are you in survivor mode? (I was a single parent starting when my daughter was 2 years old...)
• Action Signs (I have a 14 year old son who is suffering from depression...)

LOCAL EVENTS

Avoiding the Overscheduled Child
This Parents Place workshop will offer guidance on how you can help your preteen live a balanced and manageable life. Thursday, Aug. 3, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202648

Reconnecting with Your Preteen
This YWCA Silicon Valley course will help parents reconnect with their preteen while still setting proper guidelines for behavior. Thursday, Aug. 17, in San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202677

It's a Bird. It's a Plane. It's a Preteen!
Hiller Aviation Museum invites preteens and teens to experience a flight above the San Francisco Bay. The nonprofit museum is dedicated to providing a motivational aviation experience for the younger generation, and all flights are led by a licensed pilot in a registered plane. Saturday, Aug. 19, in San Carlos.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202746

Find more preteen-focused events on kidscal.org: http://www.kidscal.org.
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

LOCAL RESOURCES

Summer Learning for Preteens
Thank you for your postings of summer activity and internet safety resources. We are on our way toward compiling a community database of resources and we encourage you to continue to contribute. This month, we turn to education.

Summer offers a chance to brush up on academic skills at a slower pace. If you know of a local tutoring, studying, or testing resource that works with preteens, please list it on preteenalliance.org.

And, remember, you can post general comments about education in the Preteen Alliance's Discussion Forums.

HAVE AN OPINION?

Question of the Month: Parents, What's Your #1 Tip for Surviving the Preteen Years?
Parents - help other parents! What strategies have you found to be most effective during the preteen years? It could be a mode of communication, a form of discipline that works, or even a fun activity that you have shared with your preteen. Preteenalliance.org is a place for parents of preteens to talk to each other and get advice, so please offer yours, or ask other parents how they have dealt with an issue you are experiencing. Post a comment.

New Discussions on preteenalliance.org:

• Any ideas what I can do for my son, 12, in the Mtn View Area?
• Lack of School Resources = More Community Programs
• Gangs in San Mateo County

LOCAL EVENTS

Heart to Heart Seminar - Just for Boys
Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's Heart to Heart Seminars for fathers and sons cover the topics of puberty, growing up, and sexuality. Wednesday, July 12, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202103

Self-Defense for Preteens and Teens
This course for preteens and teens focuses on preventing stranger, acquaintance, and relationship violence. It consists of nine training hours over two days. The class is sponsored by Impact Bay Area Full-Force Self Defense. Saturday, July 15, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202726

Training for Those Who Work with Families
This Family Resources International two-day training is suitable for social services staff in public and private agencies that serve families with children ages 6-11. The training focuses on the evidence-based Strengthening Families Program. Monday, July 31, San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202673

Find more preteen-focused events: http://www.kidscal.org.
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

Thursday, May 25, 2006

LOCAL RESOURCES

Keep Building Our Community Resources Section
Thank you for your suggestions from last month's newsletter for Internet safety resources. That topic started our database of community resources, and we'd like to continue with a new topic: Summer Activities.

Summer is fast approaching. Do you know of any health-related summer activities that are available for preteens? If so, please list them on preteenalliance.org. Opportunities could include summer camps, classes, group projects, educational activities, and anything else related to the well being of preteens.

HAVE AN OPINION?

Question of the Month: Are Preteens Too Wired?
Some parents worry that their kids spend too much time in front of a computer, on a cell phone, or playing video games. But other parents find that the best way to talk to their kids is through instant messaging, e-mail, and other forms of electronic media. What's your take on the role of electronic media in a preteen's life? Are kids spending too much time on the computer and watching TV? Should parents become more tech-savvy to keep up? Post a comment.

Now Being Discussed on preteenalliance.org:

• Stress Reduction for Preteens
• A Primary Prevention Program for Preteens
• Children Now Offers Media Info

LOCAL EVENTS

Weight Loss Surgery: When Nutritional and Activity Changes Are Not Enough
The San Mateo County Child Health and Disability Program offers this teleconference to provide an overview of severe obesity and weight loss surgery in children. The teleconference will focus on preventing the need for weight loss surgery, the medical concerns, and the complications associated with bariatric surgery in pediatrics. Wednesday, June 7, in Redwood City.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202590

I'm Not Mad At You - I Just Hate You! (The Mother-Daughter Relationship)
This two-session Parents Place workshop will examine the rewarding -- but often challenging -- relationship between mothers and their preteen daughters. Tuesday, June 13, in Palo Alto.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202645

Values Coaching for Preteen and Teens
In this YWCA Silicon Valley workshop, participants will talk about creative ways to start conversations with preteens and teens about values. Saturday, June 24, in San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202687

Find more preteen-focused events: http://www.kidscal.org.
Add your events to kidscal.org: http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

Friday, April 28, 2006

LOCAL RESOURCES -- INTERNET SAFETY

We Need Your Help
Do you know of any Internet safety and education resources that might be of use to parents or professionals? If so, please list them on preteenalliance.org. We're putting together a database of local resources for the community, starting this month with Internet safety -- in light of recent concerns associated with social networking websites such as myspace.com. Remember, you also can post your opinion about this topic in the Media/Internet use folder in the discussion forum.

HAVE AN OPINION?

Question of the Month: Sleep -- Do Preteens Get Enough?
A recent survey suggests that 60 percent of children ages 9 to 13 don't get enough sleep, even though most preteens say they wish they could sleep more. Experts recommend that preteens get 10 hours of sleep a night. How do local preteens fare? Why are some preteens unable to get the sleep they need? Post a comment.

Now Being Discussed on preteenalliance.org:

• Stress Reduction for Preteens

• Helping Preteens Who Are Cutting

• New Cell Phones with GPS Allow Parents to Track Kids

RESOURCES ON PRETEENALLIANCE.ORG

Web Resources
Preteenalliance.org's resources page lists links to information from the recent Preteen Summit, the Palo Alto Medical Foundation's Preteen Health Talk website, and services related to several other preteen-specific health topics.

Tell Us What You Think of "A Portrait of Preteens"
The recently released report, "A Portrait of Preteens in San Mateo and Santa Clara Counties," is available at http://www.preteenalliance.org/news.html and offers a snapshot of how local preteens are faring. After you've read the report, please fill out a short survey about the report, and enter for a chance to win a $50 gift certificate to a bookstore.

LOCAL NEWS & EVENTS

Poll: Children's Health Top Priority for Bay Area Residents
The well being of children and education and the schools outrank 11 other issues as chief concerns for local residents, regardless of their parental status, gender, income level or political affiliation. More than seven in 10 Bay Area respondents (71 percent) report being "extremely concerned" about the well being of children, according to a survey commissioned by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health. The survey also addressed a number of topics relevant to preteens, including stress, bullying, and body image.

Discipline to Improve Behavior and the Parent/Child Relationship
This four-hour workshop sponsored by the YWCA of Silicon Valley will help parents discover how positive discipline can improve self-esteem, communication and the parent-child relationship. Saturday, April 29, in San Jose.
http://www.kidscal.org/event/202025

Find more preteen-focused events at http://www.kidscal.org.
Add your events to kidscal.org at http://www.lpfch.org/cgi-bin/calendar/register.cgi

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Welcome to the redesigned Preteen Alliance Newsletter. This monthly e-mail highlights discussions, news, and research available through the new preteen-focused website, http://www.preteenalliance.org, and notes community resources and events related to preteens. To submit an item, e-mail a brief description and a web link to preteens@lpfch.org, or call (650) 724-5778.

Please forward this e-mail to others who might be interested in subscribing. Thank you.

HAVE AN OPINION?

Question of the Month: Are Preteens Too Stressed?
A recent poll found that 64 percent of of Bay Area parents said their preteens are under moderate to very high stress. Do you agree? If so, what do you think is causing this stress -- school, extra-curricular activities, home life, or something else? And what can be done to relieve this stress?

Now Being Discussed on preteenalliance.org:

• How much sleep is enough for a preteen?

• Do you think kids are bored in school?

• How can kids who are bullied help themselves?

RESOURCES ON PRETEENALLIANCE.ORG

Local Reports on Preteens
Several reports recently released by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health and The Preteen Alliance are available online, including a study of school-based counselors and nurses in San Mateo County, a data report of what is known about preteens in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties, and research on the key issues affecting low-income Latino preteens in Santa Clara County. More data and resources also are available at http://www.kidsdata.org.

Be a Resource for Others
Preteenalliance.org offers a Member Directory, where individuals can identify their specialties regarding preteens. Whether you're a parent or a professional who works with preteens, your wisdom may be a valuable resource to others. Add your information to the member directory using the "preferences" link after you log in. Questions? E-mail preteens@lpfch.org

LOCAL EVENTS AND RESOURCES

Heart to Heart Talks for Preteens, Parents
Body changes, what to know about the opposite sex, and other issues affecting adolescents will be discussed during Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's "Heart to Heart Talk on Growing Up" for preteens and parents/guardians, which is offered regularly throughout the year. Call (650) 724-4601 for information or to register. Upcoming dates:
For Girls Only (ages 9-12): Sept. 24 and 21
For Boys Only (ages 9-12): May 30 and June 6
http://www.lpch.org/newsEvents/EventsLectures/YourFamilysHealth/heartToHeart.html

Find more preteen-focused events at http://www.kidscal.org.

Mentoring Program for Preteens
The On-the-Mark Mentoring Program offered through Parents Place, which is part of Jewish Family and Children's Services, serves Peninsula youth ages 8-18 in need of both a supportive adult role model and homework help. This free, non-sectarian program provides one-on-one matches with a preteen or teen and a volunteer mentor to offer friendship and guidance. For information on matching a child with a mentor, contact Robin Liffmann at RobinL@jfcs.org or (650) 688-3056.

Wednesday, Nov. 17, 2004

Dear Preteen Alliance Member:

Welcome to the first e-newsletter of the Preteen Alliance of Santa Clara and San Mateo counties. As you know, the Alliance has been under development over the past year, after our inspiring 2003 launch event with former U.S. Surgeon General Dr. David Satcher. Much has happened since then, and we are initiating this newsletter, which we will send three times a year, to keep you up to date and to provide a forum for sharing your information on events and programs that may be of interest to others who, like you, joined the Alliance.

We also have sent out four editions of the Preteen Digest, which is a compilation of recent news and research related to preteens that we send out three times a year.

About the Preteen Alliance

You may recall that the purpose of the Alliance is to promote the emotional and behavioral health of preteens in the two counties by using information to raise public awareness and inform regional action. Currently, the Preteen Alliance has 171 members, led by a steering committee of 24, representing both counties. The steering committee meets three times per year to advise on Alliance activities. The first project of the Alliance is to develop a report that summarizes the state of preteens in this region (see item #2 below).

Here are some recent developments related to preteens:

1) “Preteen Health Talk” Website: Launched in October by the Palo Alto Medical Foundation, with support from the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health, "Preteen Health Talk" offers health information for children ages 9-12 and their parents, on topics ranging from divorce to nutrition to puberty. The site also offers the opportunity for preteens to submit questions.

2) First-Ever Regional Data Report on Preteens: Guided by the Preteen Alliance Steering Committee, the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health is sponsoring a report about the health and well being of preteens in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties. Slated for release in Spring 2005, the report will compile the available data on this age group.

3) Benchmarks for Assessing Youth Development Programs: In June 2004, the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health released the results of a two-year study to assess the effectiveness of its grantmaking to programs that serve children ages 9-13. The study proposes a set of benchmarks to assess programs for youth, and suggests strategies for considering common program challenges, such as staff retention and engaging parents.

4) Stanford Conference on Student Stress: "SOS: Stressed Out Students," an April 2004 conference co-sponsored by the Stanford University School of Education and the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health, addressed stress among students in middle school, high school, and college. The conference included an evening forum for the general public and a full-day workshop for 15 local schools that applied to participate. Staff from these same schools reassembled on Saturday, Nov. 6, to report on their progress in alleviating stress at their schools. A second conference is in the planning stages.

5) KTEH to Produce Parent Advice Shows: KTEH, in collaboration with the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health, has filmed two shows on issues of significance to many preteens -- divorce and stress. The shows are pilots for a proposed series. We will let Alliance members know when the shows will air, likely early next year.

6) New Kidsdata Website Offers Local Facts, Resources: Kidsdata.org, launched on Oct. 1, tracks data on key topics related to children's health and well being in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties. The site also offers resources for getting and giving help, and links to related news and research. In the coming months, data related specifically to preteen emotional health will be added.

Sign up to receive a monthly e-newsletter highlighting new data and resources on kidsdata.org.

7) Reminder: Kidscal.org Can Promote Your Events: Kidscal.org, which has a new easier-to-navigate look, lists hundreds of children's health events hosted by nonprofits in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties, from parenting classes and support groups to health fairs and fundraisers. Nonprofit organizations are encouraged to submit their children's health events to kidscal.org.

You also can sign up for Kidscal Update, a weekly e-mail digest highlighting new and notable events from kidscal.org.

If you would like more information on any of these projects, or have information for the Preteen Alliance newsletter, reply to this e-mail or call us at (650) 724-5778.

You can find out about all of the foundation's community programs and partnerships at http://www.lpfch.org/informed/

Please forward this note to others you think may be interested in the Preteen Alliance.

More about the Preteen Alliance:
http://www.preteenalliance.org

Join the Preteen Alliance:
http://www.lpfch.org/signup/

Tuesday, March 29, 2005

Dear Preteen Alliance Member:

As a service for all members of the Preteen Alliance, this newsletter goes out three times a year, to keep members up to date and to provide a forum for sharing information on programs and activities related to preteens in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties. If you would like to submit an item for the next newsletter, please send a brief description to info@lpfch.org.

Please forward this newsletter to others who are interested in preteens.

ABOUT THE PRETEEN ALLIANCE

The Preteen Alliance seeks to promote the emotional and behavioral health of preteens in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties by using information to raise public awareness and inform regional action. Currently, the Preteen Alliance has 240 members, led by a steering committee of 24 individuals representing both counties. The steering committee meets three times a year to advise on Alliance activities. The first major project of the Alliance now is underway -- the development of a report that summarizes the state of preteens in this region (see second item under "Reminders," below).

LOCAL EVENTS & ACTIVITIES

'Heart to Heart Talk' for Preteens, Parents
Body changes, what to know about the opposite sex, and other issues affecting adolescents will be discussed during Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's "Heart to Heart Talk on Growing Up" for preteens and parents/guardians, which is offered regularly throughout the year. Packard Hospital also plans to offer a lecture for parents of preteens in the summer, as well as a retreat for mothers and preteen daughters in the fall.

Radio Programs Focus on Preteen Issues
In February, two local radio shows that focus on children's issues, Childhood Matters and Nuestros Niños, began airing a series of broadcasts about how parents/guardians can understand and encourage preteens during these key transitional years. This series of call-in shows, offered in English and Spanish, are sponsored in part by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health. The next shows are scheduled for Sunday, April 3.

March 5 Conference for Girls Draws More Than Anticipated
"See Me. Hear Me. I'm for Real!," a first-ever conference for 5th - 7th grade girls in San Mateo County, drew more than 500 preteens and their parents/guardians. The conference offered workshops on self defense, conflict resolution, dating, and other issues, as well as discussions for parents about academic stress and building supportive relationships with preteens. It was co-sponsored by State Sen. Jackie Speier, Notre Dame de Namur University, and the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health, in collaboration with the San Mateo County Office of Education.

New Pilot Program for Preteens in Palo Alto
The Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's Community Relations Department recently launched the "Healthy Choices-Smart Decisions" program at Terman Middle School in Palo Alto. The program, which is designed to address risk-taking behaviors among preteens and early teens, aims to prepare adolescents to face tough decisions associated with smoking, alcohol and drug use, and relationships, among other issues. After this spring's pilot program, plans are in place to take the program to other middle schools next fall. For more information, call (650) 723-9985.

Local Research on Preteens Now Underway
The Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health is sponsoring two preteen-focused research projects, with guidance from the Preteen Alliance Steering Committee. The first is a study of school-based counselors and nurses in San Mateo County, to elicit their views on the key emotional and behavioral issues facing preteens and to examine the role these professions play in supporting preteens. The second is focused on Latino preteens in Santa Clara County, in which adult professionals who regularly interact with these children will share their perspectives on the unique issues facing the Latino population.

2005 County Children's Reports Released
San Mateo and Santa Clara County each publish reports on the status of children every few years, and the new reports were released this month. Although the reports cover children of all ages, they include a few findings related to preteens.
San Mateo County report
Santa Clara County report

WEB RESOURCES

San Mateo County Network of Care Website
This site offers local information about mental health services, laws, news, as well as message boards and other resources. It also features updates on the Mental Health Services Act (Proposition 63), which will include focused planning for children and youth.

New National Suicide Prevention Lifeline and Website
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services' Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) has launched the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: (800) 273-TALK.

Updated Alcohol Prevention Website for Middle Schoolers
The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism in the National Institutes of Health posted a new version of "The Cool Spot," the institute's website for middle school (11- to 13-year-old) children.

'Preteen Health Talk' Website
This Palo Alto Medical Foundation website offers health information for children ages 9-12 and their parents, on topics ranging from divorce to nutrition to bullying.

REMINDERS

First-Ever Regional Data Report on Preteens Coming Soon
The Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health is sponsoring a report about the health and well being of preteens in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties, with guidance from the Preteen Alliance Steering Committee. Slated for release in late spring or early summer 2005, the report will compile available data about this age group.

The Preteen Digest
The next issue of the Preteen Digest, a regular e-mail summary of news and research about preteens, will be sent to all Preteen Alliance members in April. Past digests are available online.

How to Recognize Quality Programs for Preteens
A recent study commissioned by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health recommends benchmarks for quality youth development programs for preteens. The two-year study, conducted by Public/Private Ventures, assessed one of the foundation's grantmaking programs, which funds services to promote the emotional and behavioral health of preteens, ages 9-13.

Kidscal.org Can Promote Your Events
Kidscal.org lists hundreds of events for children and families hosted by nonprofits in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties, from parenting classes and support groups to health fairs and fundraisers. Nonprofit organizations are encouraged to submit their children's events. You also can sign up to receive Kidscal Update, a weekly e-mail digest highlighting new and notable events from kidscal.org.

Kidsdata.org Offers Local Facts, Resources
Kidsdata.org provides easy access to data on dozens of key topics related to the health and well being of children in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties, and includes summaries of data on 42 cities and 56 school districts in the two counties. The site also offers community resources and links to related news and research. You also can sign up to receive Kidsdata Monthly, an e-newsletter highlighting new data and resources on kidsdata.org.

If you have questions or want to include information in the next edition of the Preteen Alliance Newsletter, reply to this e-mail or call us at (650) 724-5778.

You can find out about the foundation's community programs and partnerships at http://www.lpfch.org/informed/.

More about the Preteen Alliance:
http://www.preteenalliance.org

Join the Preteen Alliance:
http://www.lpfch.org/signup/

Wednesday, Aug. 10, 2005

Dear Preteen Alliance Member: As a service for all members of The Preteen Alliance, this newsletter goes out three times a year, to keep members up to date and to provide a forum for sharing information on programs and activities related to preteens in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties. If you would like to submit an item for the next newsletter, please send a brief description (including weblink, if possible) to info@lpfch.org. Please forward this newsletter to others who are interested in preteens.



LOCAL EVENTS & ACTIVITIES

Parents, Teens, and Drinking
The Palo Alto Medical Foundation is sponsoring a Goodparents, Inc. workshop for parents on Thursday, Aug. 11, at 7 p.m. Parents will learn how to talk with their teens about alcohol; find out how to maintain ongoing communication; and understand how they can help teens make good decisions. Parents also will learn what teens say influences their decision-making. This training is part of the Goodparents "BeInformed" workshop series. Cost: $10 per person. To register, call (408) 727-KIDS, or visit http://www.goodparentsinc.com

Supporting Your Child’s Athletic and Artistic Abilities
On Aug. 23, Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital presents, “Enhancing Creative and Athletic Performance: The Psychology & Psychiatry of Sports & Performing Arts,” with psychiatrist Dr. Hans Steiner and psychologist Dr. Glenn Brassington. The session will help parents, coaches, and teachers learn how to support children's athletic and creative goals. This program is free and open to the public, but space is limited. Please call (800) 756-9000 to reserve a space.

Radio Shows: Getting Ready for Middle School
Two local radio shows that focus on children's issues, Childhood Matters and Nuestros Niños, will air broadcasts on Sunday, Aug. 28, about the issues children experience as they enter middle school, and how parents/guardians can support them during this transition. These call-in shows, offered in English and Spanish, are sponsored in part by the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health.
Nuestros Niños: http://www.kidscal.org/event/201939
Childhood Matters: http://www.kidscal.org/event/201935

Programs for Girls: Free Training for Agencies
The City of San Jose Mayor's Gang Prevention Task Force is holding a free workshop for youth-serving agencies about issues affecting high-risk girls and successful strategies for working with them. The event, hosted by the Girl Scouts of Santa Clara County, will be held Tuesday, Aug. 30, from 9 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. at the Mexican Heritage Plaza in San Jose. For more information, contact Jennifer Gacutan at jgacutan@girlscoutsofscc.org or (408) 287-4170, ext. 218.

Heart to Heart Talks for Preteens, Parents
Body changes, what to know about the opposite sex, and other issues affecting adolescents will be discussed during Lucile Packard Children's Hospital's "Heart to Heart Talk on Growing Up" for preteens and parents/guardians, which is offered regularly throughout the year. Upcoming dates are below. Call (650) 724-4601 for information or to register.
For Boys Only: (ages 9-12) Aug. 24 and 31. Cost: $60 per family for boys and their fathers or male resource person. Scholarships available.
For Girls Only: (ages 9-12) Sept. 8 and 15. Cost: $60 per family for girls and their mothers or female resource person. Scholarships available.

Talking with Your Kids about Growing Up
Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital is holding another seminar for parents, “Talking with Your Kids about Growing Up: Everything They Want and Need to Know about Puberty and Sexuality,” on Tuesday, Aug. 30, at 7 p.m. Cost: $50 per family. Scholarships available. Call (650) 724-4601 to register.

Conference Focuses on Preteen Emotional Health
This year's annual Family Forum conference presented by the Child Care Coordinating Council of San Mateo County will focus on the social and emotional health of children. The Sept. 27 event will include one session on the unique issues children face during the preteen years. For more information, call (650) 655-6770, ext. 261, or e-mail info@sanmateo4Cs.org. Note that the conference is almost sold out.

Preteen Documentary in Progress
"A Girl's Life," an upcoming feature-length documentary shot over a period of four years, explores the experiences of four girls ages 9 to 13. It examines a variety of topics from these girls' perspectives, such as the dangers of gossip and how middle school youth view adults. The film, still in the works, is being produced and directed by Kristy Guevara-Flanagan and Dawn Valadez. The project has received support from many funders, including the Community Action Fund of the Women's Foundation and the City of Oakland Cultural Arts Fund.

LOCAL PROGRAMS & RESOURCES

Mentoring Program for Preteens
The On-the-Mark Mentoring Program through Parents Place, part of Jewish Family and Children's Services, serves Peninsula youth ages 8-18 who need both a supportive adult role model and homework help. This free, non-sectarian program provides one-on-one matches with a preteen or teen and a volunteer mentor for friendship, encouragement, and guidance. For information on matching a child with a mentor, contact Robin Liffmann at RobinL@jfcs.org or (650) 688-3056.

New Support for Preteen Foster Children
The Center for Venture Philanthropy, a division of Peninsula Community Foundation, has launched a new social venture fund, Fostering the Future, to support youth ages 11-25 who are (or were) part of San Mateo County’s foster or kincare systems. In partnership with other agencies, the fund is designed to create a model that will help these youth transition successfully to adulthood with permanent, caring adult relationships and appropriate academic and life-skills preparation. Much of the focus will be on the 11-14 and 18-25 age groups. The fund will pilot its "asset coach approach" in East Palo Alto and Redwood City. For more information, contact Margot Rawlins at (650) 854-5566, ext. 248.

PAMF Preteen Website Expands
A group of high school, junior high, and elementary students is volunteering time to expand the content on the Palo Alto Medical Foundation's (PAMF) "Preteen Health Talk" website (www.pamf.org/preteen). New content will include "body science" articles on bug bites, broken bones, braces, and other topics. The site also will feature book reviews, do-it-yourself arts and crafts, and recipes for preteens. Currently, the site also includes a special section, For Parents and Teachers, with information on kids and sports, computer safety, and additional resources to help adults understand and better communicate with preteens.

Free Legal Services for Youth
Legal Advocates for Children and Youth offers free legal services to children and youth in Santa Clara County. The program focuses on guardianships, emancipation, pregnant and parenting teens, homeless and runaway youth, and education. The program also provides information and referrals on a variety of legal issues. For more information or to request assistance, please call (408) 280-2428.

COMING SOON

Preteen Alliance Convening
Details will be available shortly about the first convening of the full Preteen Alliance, tentatively scheduled for November. The event will provide an opportunity to meet other members of the Alliance and to hear about local research on preteens, including the first-ever data report exclusively on preteens in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties.

New Preteen Alliance Website
Responding to requests from Alliance members for a timely communication vehicle, the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children's Health plans to launch an interactive website for the Alliance this fall. The site will feature discussion groups, up-to-date news stories, and links to data, events, and other resources. Alliance members will be notified when the site is up and running.

The Preteen Digest
The next issue of the Preteen Digest, a regular e-mail summary of news and research about preteens, will be sent to all Preteen Alliance members in September. Past digests are available online at http://www.lpfch.org/informed/preteens/p-digest/.

WEB RESOURCES

Kidscal.org Can Promote Your Events
Kidscal.org lists hundreds of events for children and families hosted by nonprofits in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties, from parenting classes and support groups to health fairs and fundraisers. Nonprofit organizations are encouraged to submit their children's events at http://www.kidscal.org. You also can sign up to receive Kidscal Update, a weekly e-mail digest highlighting new and notable events from kidscal.org.
http://www.lpfch.org/signup/

Kidsdata.org Offers Local Facts, Resources
Kidsdata.org provides easy access to data on dozens of key topics related to the health and well being of children in San Mateo and Santa Clara counties, and includes summaries of data on 42 cities and 56 school districts in the two counties. The site also offers community resources and links to related news and research. http://www.kidsdata.org. To receive Kidsdata Monthly, an e-newsletter highlighting new data and resources on kidsdata.org, sign up at http://www.lpfch.org/signup/.

ABOUT THE PRETEEN ALLIANCE


The Preteen Alliance seeks to promote the emotional and behavioral health of preteens in Santa Clara and San Mateo counties by using information to raise public awareness and inform regional action. Currently, The Preteen Alliance has 313 members, led by a steering committee of 24 individuals representing both counties. The steering committee meets three times a year to advise on Alliance activities. The first major project of the Alliance is nearing completion -- a report that summarizes the state of preteens in this region, which will be released in November (see first item under "Coming Soon," above). For more information, see http://www.preteenalliance.org.

If you have questions or want to include information in the next edition of The Preteen Alliance Newsletter, call us at (650) 724-5778.

More about The Preteen Alliance:
http://www.preteenalliance.org

Join The Preteen Alliance:
http://www.lpfch.org/signup/

This Preteen Alliance Newsletter also is available online:
http://www.lpfch.org/informed/preteens/panewsletter.html You can find out about the foundation's community programs and partnerships at http://www.lpfch.org/informed.